When I was a kid, we actually looked forward to playing outside. You just always made sure to be home before the street lights came on in order to avoid the wrath of your parents. An Apple computer wasn’t flat. It was the size of a carryon suitcase, had a black screen with a green blinking cursor, and you could only play Number Munchers and Oregon Trail on it where everyone in your group died of the plague or from starvation because you couldn’t shoot squirrels and deer good enough to survive. You took keyboarding classes with cardboard coverings so you learned how to type, because Google wasn’t there to do it for you. Floppy disks were actually floppy. Then the hard disks got renamed inappropriately, and you sat anxiously waiting to that horrible fax dial up screaming from your computer until you finally heard those three blessed words…”You’ve got mail”.
You always made sure that you had enough change so that you could use a thing called a payphone to call and let someone know you were ready to be picked up. If you had a pager, you were either in the medical field or considered a drug dealer according to your mother. When you were grounded, you were actually sent to your room where there were no computers, TVs, cellphones, gaming systems, or anything else. You actually had to spend time reflecting on what you did wrong so you could make better choices next time. And disrespecting an adult carried consequences and was not accepted on any level.
You looked forward to chicken nugget day at school and roadkill pizza Fridays. And despite the only option for your mashed potatoes was a gravy that glowed yellow like the nuclear power plant on the Simpsons, it beat eating the lettuce and carrots that was considered your “salad” that you drowned in ranch dressing to make it edible. You actually had a thing called recess where you got to go outside to run off your craziness from sitting still for so long, because back then the school district believed in supporting the sanity of your teacher more than a standardized test. You also had things like art and music just as much as you had gym. You also learned how to read and spell all on your own, and write in the lost form of language known as cursive. It was CRAZY!
Book reports meant you had to use a card catalog at the library to find your needed books, and you had to use index cards to write down your references and quotes that you would put in your paper. Then when you finally typed your report on paper that had thin green stripes throughout it, you had the privilege of tearing off the edges without tearing the whole report to avoid listening to the printer scream loudly as it printed every letter for a second time. Luckily, reports were a lot shorter back then.
Movies were$3 which made the AMC movie ticket books the best Christmas gift ever, and I witnessed the extreme upset when gas bravely rose above the blessed 99 cents at Quick Trip. $15 actually filled your tank instead of wondering if you would get even a ¼ of a tank. Kid’s meals had glass collectable cups of your favorite cartoon and movie characters, toys that were worth something, and Hardee’s bravely gave kids 45 records that you could listen to the story of Gizmo as you followed with the book that was included. Cutting music involved running a cassette tape all day trying to catch your favorite song on the radio, and then using the pause, play, and stop button to cut out the commercials so you could have the most epic car tape for those long road trips. You watched movies on VHS tapes, and set it to record your favorite shows to playback later because DVR wasn’t even a thought at the time.
Despite being a generation that saw the Internet come to life with so much other technical advances, we were blessed with the greatest gift of all. Decompression. Despite if you were bullied at school, at home, or at your favorite after school activity, we had the opportunity to get to turn it off at some point during the day. Sadly, the younger generations have lost this gift due to social media and constant connectivity through cell phones, tablets, laptops and more. This is the biggest reason why I am working on getting a summer camp to help kids decompress and learn to handle bullying without taking their own lives. We have all been bullied at one point or another in our lives. Some of us still even face bullying into our adulthood. It is a disease that will never be eliminated, but at least we were given tools to help us manage it better. We remember a time when cell phones didn’t live our lives for us. We learned from physical books and not ipads and laptops. We had the ability to catch our breath without being constantly bombarded on multiple 24/7 social media platforms. There were consequences to our words, and we were less vicious because our bullying was face to face so we didn’t have the protection of hiding behind a computer screen to prevent us from getting punched in the face.
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